Under the Covers with Eve - Episode 30: Preparing for the First Time

27:46 Under the Covers with Eve episode 30 / 34 May 09, 2016 2 comments 18161 2513

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In this episode I revisit a subject I've discussed somewhat in other episodes, mostly because I get so many questions from people about it that I think it's worth revisiting. A lot of people are very nervous about their first time, either as virgins or as someone beginning a relationship with a new partner. So in this episode I give you some general advice and opinions about how you can prepare for the first time.

Forgive me if I repeat myself in places - at least I'm consistent!

I mentioned things you can do if your female partner is a virgin and you want to make the first time easier for her - here's the link to the wikihow page on it.

How to Have Pain Free Sex

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  • Jandrusel on 2016-05-10 12:50:09 (UTC) (edited)

    Yay! UTC is back earlier than expected!

    I think you've covered all the bases here. It's amazing how much can we worry about first time sex. As silly as it sounds, I often worry about it: 'When it will happen?', 'With who?', 'Will I be any good?', blablabla. Anxiety is a boner killer and my worst enemy.

    My first time is going to have to wait a while, a couple of years maybe. I'm just starting to talk to girls and giving them friendly compliments. Slow but steady, like a turtle. That's my way. I just hope that there will be single women out there when I'm ready.

    I love your podcasts. Thanks for discussing the topics I always wanted to know more about, teacher. Just one more question: Will this lesson be on the exam? ;)

    • A Eve on 2016-05-12 19:33:03 (UTC)

      haha no there are no exams! :D

      There will be lots of single women out there when you're ready - there are far, far more people like you than you can possibly imagine. People who are waiting, hoping, wondering, not ready, willing and or able to have a sexual relationship yet but wanting one in the future. It will happen in its time, I can't stress that enough.

      I won't be doing Under the Covers on any regular schedule (that was just becoming impossible) but when I get questions or things that strike me as being worth talking about in general, to a large audience, I'll try to do them as often as I can.