A Word About HFO's

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Just to clear the air on the subject of HFO's...

EDIT - based on your lovely messages and responses, I want to stress that I'm not going to stop doing HFO audios. I just wanted to make sure they weren't causing a problem.


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  • HeartPulseG on 2016-08-13 18:58:21 (UTC)

    This is my first comment out in public, with everyone watching, and I second everything that has been said here.

    You have shown a love and comfort that is unknown by me and the HFO's are awesome when I'm in the mood. You create a magical and exiting place for the most amazing sexual experience ever. I haven't achieved a hands free orgasm yet but I have gotten extremely close, 98% hands free and the explosion was out of this world and I shall take on the challenge to reach 100% HFO. I feel like a little kid with a new toy and I don't want to put it down.

    Keep doing what you enjoy and try not to listen to negative comments. they will unfortunately always be there, the majority clearly thinks your doing an amazing job and amazing is an understatement.

    • A Eve on 2016-08-14 18:16:23 (UTC)

      Thank you for commenting, I really appreciate it! And I'm so glad you enjoy these audios, no matter how ❤️

  • WarmConsidering on 2016-08-12 23:25:51 (UTC) (edited)

    It's good to see that you're pressing on with the HFO audios. That was my first exposure to your work, and it was very potent. I'm also pleased to be a part of such a wonderful community.


    It is the mixture of emotional connection and intimacy within the script that sets your work apart. It's positive and inspiring...and so, so very sexy.


    Still, it's in my nature to "chime in," and so I shall.


    From what I understand of male orgasm--set aside the very well researched post preceding mine--orgasm and ejaculation are two distinct events. It's entirely possible to my understanding to orgasm without ejaculating. In fact, that's the only way a man can be multi-orgasmic, because ejaculation triggers the refractory period where erection subsides and serotonin decays into melatonin, and he becomes sexually unavailable for a period of time unique to the individual.


    The only time in my life when I have ever orgasmed and ejaculated without touching my penis in a wakeful state was when I was masturbating with a vibrator, in my butt, hammering my prostate like a..... You get the idea.


    Every man is different.


    And to Eve I offer this affirmation that your feminine instincts and intuition have prepared you fully to make your art.

    • A Eve on 2016-08-14 18:17:12 (UTC)

      Thank you so much, I really appreciate it. Absolutely, every man is different, the whole idea is to have fun with your body, see what kinds of pleasure it can bring you...

  • MeditationMan on 2016-07-19 21:28:42 (UTC)

    Hi Eve,
    Long time listener, first time posting. Please excuse me lurking all this time. I occasionally feel a little guilty because I get so much enjoyment out of relaxing, clearing my head, and listening to your audios. I do nothing in return, and in truth I know that you don't mind that because you are such a giving person. You put in so much time and effort into making beautifully recorded audios, and you demand nothing in return. You don't even put advertisements up on your page. You love your listeners, and you just love making them happy in a variety of ways. It really comes across in your audios. You endeavour to provide a variety of beautiful different kinds of stories to accommodate the plethora of preferences they may have. Your listeners trust you, which speaks a lot about you, especially in the world of erotic hypnosis. You are a gift, and it is always a special treat when you share a new audio in one of my areas of interest.
    In particular, your audios often have a sort of academic nature and curiosity about them that I can appreciate. I suspect that one of the reasons why your audios are so successful (for me at least} is that you do not overpromise or overstep yourself. You are curious experimenting and trying new things in as much a way as your viewers are, no pressure. You look to draw connections between possible biological justifications but maintain an open mind about things. Don't be too modest though. Don't let people try to shame you into feeling guilty about making intelligent and creative guesses.
    I thought I might share with you and your listeners my own personal story. I have always had a similar curiosity about things, so when I was 10ish I experienced my first orgasm guiltily experimenting under the conditions of what I expected sex would be like (and it was about a year before I heard any of my peers put the name "masturbation" to it). Additionally, some time passed before I noticed ejaculate, which I imagine was some combination of it not being there at first and not knowing to look for it at first. Reason told me that something was supposed to be going on down there. As a result, I didn't have any wet dreams until a few years later when some combination of curiosity and perhaps concern for how much time I spent masturbating lead me to try abstaining. I don't think at the time I had ever heard the term "wet dream" before (they really ought to teach sex Ed before 15 in the US), so I was very alarmed during a graphic sexual dream when I felt this massive pressure building up in my groin. Somewhere in my head I was resisting (that passive tension in your brain that tells you not to wet the bed even while emersed in a dream), but the more that I resisted, the greater the pressure built, until finally, well, you know the rest. I shouldn't do say that actually. During a wet dream, for me at least, the actual orgasm event can be varied, either one long tensing of the muscles propelling the ejaculate continuously out of the urethra or more akin to a typical waking orgasm with multiple sharp contractions. The first wet dream I had (if I recall correctly so long ago now) was of the former kind, and I suspected, as I believe is typical, that I must have performed some strange urination in my sleep. Only after examining the fluid did I figure, "Ah, this is probably what happens if you go for long enough without manually removing the ejaculate."
    A decade later and about a five years ago now, was curious and exploring the nature of consciousness and wakefulness. I think I was also looking for reasons to refute my innate scepticism of hypnosis, and there seemed like no better way than trying the induced hypnotic HFO. Reason told me (much as your audio suggested) that HFOs (again, at the time I hadn't known to call it such) are at least possible for some in sleep. I wanted to test the boundaries of that so, after a little Googling, I discovered many hypnotists had already attempted to explore the same concept. Now, I am not a religious person, not for want of trying, and I am only occasionally spiritual. I try to be open minded, but I am sceptical. I listened to perhaps one of the gold standards of erotic hypnosis of the time (promising an HFO) and I didn't experience one. I did, however, experience an erection that lasted nearly an hour, most of the duration of the audio, purely from audio and no physical stimulation. After this and longer even more remarkable subsewuent instances, I moderated my scepticism and formed some new ideas about the nature of brain chemistry, arousal, and perhaps possible orgasm.
    Even with such a strong initial reaction (which, again, was much to my surprise) three full years passed before I ejaculated spontaneously while under hypnosis. Ironically, the video that I was watching was not actually intended to induce an HFO outright. The video's expressed intent was simply to introduce an object and condition the mind to associate touching of that object with stimulation of a particular area of the body, no promise of an HFO at all but there it was. While I had experienced semi-orgasmic dry contractions before over the previous few years, this was definitive evidence awake with my eyes open it was possible to have a waking orgasm if under hypnosis. The curious thing for me was that I had not actually been commanded to have an orgasm, and in fact, in many of the audios that I had listened to, the more overt and definitive the command for an orgasm, the less powerful the suggestion seemed to be. Rather than being about dominance or submission, this seemed to be more about the pressure and responsibility of expecting something to happen at a particular instant and subsequent disappointment if nothing did follow. Feeling pressured negates much of the effect, which is why I find it so unusual that many hypnotists rely exclusively on countdowns and a small window of expected release. Two important disclaimers: 1. I didn't spend the entire 3 years trying to have an HFO. That has to be a varied amount of time among different individuals. I did my best not to masturbate quite as much, and if I found I hadn't had sex or masturbated in a couple weeks, I lay down with an open mind and cleared my head as best I could. 2. The longer that it had been since my last ejaculation, the more sensitive (as one might expect) my arousal was to suggestion.
    The male orgasm is an intersection biological phenomenon because, on the one hand, the ejection is governed by the parasympathetic nervous system (typically associated with calming processes) while ejaculation itself is governed by the sympathetic nervous system, so the two processes don't seem to mix, and indeed, I think it is one of the reasons why an HFO is typically so difficult. When the person tenses and gets excited it can actually dispell the arousal, for me personally I find that when I remain calm and force my muscles in my groin region to relax, but I imagine the actual act in as much vivid detail as I can muster with audio/visual assistance then the HFO becomes possible. In fact. I have been able to experience an HFO on two or three separate situations not under hypnosis but instead while very relaxed and watching something arousing, perhaps under "self hypnosis".
    I experienced HFOs on a few occasions in various media, but it was rare and rarer still for the same piece video or audio to work well twice. When I listened to your binaural HFO 2, however, I exploded, and I have ejaculated on several occasions purely by listening to the audio, which is an incredibly wonderful feeling. The audio is a beautiful mixture of your both submissive and insistent demands delivered binaurally so that the brain is bewildered in its arousal. There is no time to think about controlling the body only about the mental picture of the act and the sensations that follow. I haven't heard all of yout HFO audios, but of the ones I have, binaural hypnotic erotic 2 is the most powerful to date.
    Long story short, you're the most talented hypnotist I have ever come across, and I've listened to many. Most importantly, I hope you won't feel pressured by these dozen arrogant demands to not do this or that type of audio. And while it's admittedly a very one sided connection I have enjoyed with you, I don't like the idea of me remaining silent while people make remarks that upset you. It is my belief that they have no business telling you how you should or shouldn't pleasure yourself and share with us. You'll enjoy your sessions (I suspect) much more if you are relaxed and not worrying about others demanding this or that about how you enjoy them. I appreciate you. After listening to this audio, it just sounded like you needed a hug and to hear that. Be well, Eve, and I'm wishing you all the best. -H

    • A Eve on 2016-07-21 20:54:50 (UTC)

      Thank you very much for that, I really appreciate it. It's very comforting to know that a lot of people experience positive things from my audios, and I try daily to follow the advice of not letting people tell me what kinds of audios to do.

      It's tough, I admit. Especially lately. It seems like every other email or comment I get is from someone complaining about an audio or telling me what I need to do more of, or giving me unsolicited 'advice'. It's hard to keep going at times like this - so thank you for your encouragement, it means a lot ❤️

  • memoriesofthesea on 2016-07-19 17:36:07 (UTC)

    I've had a low libido for years, and listening to one of the tracks changed my life. It was the first time I'd experienced multiple orgasms in a year, and my first HFO. It was an ecstatic experience from an unexpected avenue, a blissful surprise that's shaken me from my languor.

    • A Eve on 2016-07-21 20:55:31 (UTC)

      Wow, thank you! That's amazing! I'm so glad you experienced multiples and HFO's, I'm glad I could play any part in that!

  • elCompudador on 2016-07-13 18:09:55 (UTC)

    Absolutely love your HFOs. Even though I never had one, the HFO audios still make me feel very satisfied, refreshed and yeah, just good. I love how you can do that with just your voice. So please don't let anyone tell you how to make audios, because you are perfect at it. Thanks for doing what you do.

    Much love from Munich.
    Jan

    • A Eve on 2016-07-14 22:25:20 (UTC)

      Thank you so much, Jan! I will definitely keep making more! ❤️

  • Marc on 2016-07-11 21:22:28 (UTC)

    more HFO's please :D

    • A Eve on 2016-07-12 12:51:54 (UTC)

      okay!

  • hfoer on 2016-07-11 20:31:49 (UTC) (edited)

    Eve, please do more HFO audios. :) Much love to you. <3

    • A Eve on 2016-07-12 12:53:05 (UTC)

      Thank you so much for telling your story, and for the advice. I'm very glad you enjoy the HFO audios, I will definitely keep making them! (And everything else I do too :D) 💋

  • longtimelurker on 2016-07-11 19:44:57 (UTC)

    Oh boy oh boy...

    Salutations Eve,
    so this video finally made me make an account after lurking for a while.
    Do NOT make these entitled snowflakes intimidate you on your own channel and tell you what you can and can not make.
    You are not forcing anyone to listen to your audios and I don't see the need for people restricting you.

    The main reason that I consider you my favorite artist in this field is that I feel that I can trust you not to push any weir thoughts down my subconscious and that you don't seem to be sinister in any way.

    There is nothing wrong with your audios , you are making me and many others happy(even tho I still can't achieve an HFO) so please for the love of God continue doing what you do best.
    Don't let these people get under your skin. And while I am still here try to combine more ASMR(you are really good at it) with your HFO videos

    All the best, stay the loving person that you are!
    ..I'll continue lurking for now :)

    • A Eve on 2016-07-12 12:54:13 (UTC)

      haha well thank you for coming out of the shadows, I appreciate it. Normally I wouldn't let any one person's taste dictate what I do, but I was hearing from so many people on this, in such a short span of time, that I began to question it a little. I'm glad to be wrong!

  • leytod on 2016-07-11 18:21:07 (UTC)

    Great Zeus. I'm disappointed that you felt a need to record this.

    Exactly what you said: what you do is very creative and fantastical. If people are taking your stuff so seriously that they're driving you to re-consider your artistic choices, something is very wrong.

    Suggestions and requests from your fans are great, I'm sure. But if people are complaining to the level of asking you to stop recording one style of audio or another, that's as ridiculous as telling a famous musician to stop playing guitar or criticizing a famous actor to stop performing in action movies because the complainer doesn't like guitars or action movies.

    Don't give in to this stuff, Eve! Don't give the complainers get their own "special message from Eve" audio while the rest of us, the majority of your fans, are adult enough to choose which of your audios we click and which we don't - if we need to choose at all.

    Every audio of yours that I have listened to I have enjoyed with all my clothes on. I simply love the sexiness of your voice and the skill of your peformances. Others may prefer to listen cock-in-hand. Some may enjoy the pursuit of a HFO. Others may prefer to listen to your encouraging words while they masturbate. Whatever. It's all great. But when people complain to make you stop doing this or that because they can't get this or that - AUGH! - *the entitlement is mind boggling!*

    "Sex should be fun, healthy and lighthearted."; What the beautiful lady said.

    • A Eve on 2016-07-12 12:57:18 (UTC)

      Thanks LT! I think most listeners would be shocked at just how often I'm told to change what I'm doing, or given 'tips' on how to make my audios so much hotter, 'like so-and-so does', or the ones who try to tell me they'll join the site if I do more x, y z for them - and it's not suggestions or ideas, it's more like complaining.

      You're right about entitlement, an awful lot of people feel like they can just demand what they want from me. As I told someone else, I don't usually let people dictate what I do, I had just heard from a lot of people on this and I had to question it.

  • YouAreMySunshine on 2016-07-11 17:31:33 (UTC)

    Ohk! First things first...you don't have to hold yourself back from making particular audios just because it doesn't work for some people. That is just not right. I guess I wouldn't be wrong if I call you an artist. And Marilyn Manson, ( I hope you know who he is, if not I'm giving one youtube link at the end of this comment) in short, has this message to artists of all sorts of fields: "Artists shouldn't hold back from expressing their feelings regardless of their nature; positive or negative."
    Now you, Eve, have always been nothing but brutally positive with your audios. That is what I think!
    Even I confess that I've orgasmed just once out of the several times that I've listened to your HFO audios. But everytime I couldn't go over the edge, I was never too concerned about it because the orgasm is just like an icing on the cake. Listening to your voice and allowing myself to flow through the HFO audio or any other audio of yours is what I like the most. Period!
    And as Vail mentioned below in his comment, "I think they just need time to understand that it is about the enjoyment of the HFO audio, and not how "unassisted" one must be to climax." I agree with him!
    The Marilyn Manson vid motivated me to let my honest feelings out while writing stuff. I hope it helps you in some way.
    Here's the link:
    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=WB4AqkRrgyI

    • A Eve on 2016-07-12 12:58:15 (UTC)

      Thank you so much, I'm glad you're enjoying them the way they're intended - as just a guide to your own self-pleasure.

      And I definitely know Marilyn Manson :P

      Thank you again!

      • YouAreMySunshine on 2016-07-12 18:32:49 (UTC)

        It's just that the past few years have been dominated by electronic and pop music, so, not many people know much about the hard rock genre and the bands. Glad you ain't one of 'em :3

        • A Eve on 2016-07-13 11:29:20 (UTC)

          I'm full of surprises :p

  • MadWithLust on 2016-07-11 10:47:22 (UTC)

    I haven't had the HFO yet but I've always gotten super close where I could just feel myself right at the brink of orgasm. I've always just given the HFO a hand (:P) to give it that little bit I need to finish. THe HFO audios are still crazy stimulating and sexy and I still end up with a powerful, draining orgasm. I enjoy the HFO audios...just a little differently! Thanks for the sex positive message!

    • A Eve on 2016-07-11 10:53:26 (UTC)

      My pleasure, MWL! That's what I always figured - that listeners would just do what they need do. 💋

  • Fysh on 2016-07-11 09:00:45 (UTC)

    Your hypnosis audios are some of my favourites. Hypnotic relaxation fused with sexual pleasure brings an intensity of need, not easily found elsewhere. Whether they are HFOs or JOIs, please experiment with more hypnosis!

    • A Eve on 2016-07-11 10:46:53 (UTC)

      I certainly will, thank you!

  • rushman007 on 2016-07-11 04:35:08 (UTC)

    Your HFOs are amazing! Keep posting!

    • A Eve on 2016-07-11 10:47:19 (UTC)

      Well thanks for letting me know, it's nice to hear what people like. ❤️

  • Vail on 2016-07-11 02:51:21 (UTC)

    Hi Eve!
    Please PLEASE do not stop your HFOs!!! While I have not done so completely hands free, I still find your HFOs to be soooo sensual and erotic, and loving. The way you help get me relaxed and mentally in such a place makes me feel so wanted, aroused, and happy. I fall asleep feeling that someone cares about me being turned on. You truly are amazing! And I love what you do and how you do it, and how much you care for all those who listen. You let us feel welcomed, comfortable and desired. You are wonderful. And so are your HFOs. Please don't stop them because a few people might not be used to them, and felt some form of anxiety or something different. I think they just need time to understand that it is about the enjoyment of the HFO audio, and not how "unassisted" one must be to climax.
    Thank you for the HFOs, and thank you so very much for you just being you!

    • A Eve on 2016-07-11 10:48:52 (UTC)

      Aww, thank you! Thanks for letting me know - I have received more than a dozen messages and comments from people essentially asking me to stop doing HFO's, so you can see why I was bit concerned. But as long as I know they're still appreciated, I'll keep doing them.

  • Scott on 2016-07-11 02:17:38 (UTC)

    I second that one. HFO's are the whole reason I got an exclusive content membership. Eve, yours were the first audio files that have worked for me (all be it with different results than I expected) and I have tried dozens before yours. I find them refreshing and uplifting! Plus you don't have to worry about the 'sex-negative programming' found in other hypnosis type of audio. They have greatly increased my overall sensual experience with myself and my partner. I hope this doesn't mean you're going to stop HFO's all together (Please don't). Either way I think you're doing a wonderful thing with each and every one of your audio productions. Each one leaves me better after listening than before. Thank you Eve!

    • A Eve on 2016-07-11 10:50:18 (UTC)

      Hi Scott - thank you so much, that's wonderful to hear. As I said to Vail, I have just received so many messages and comments from people lately, some outright asking me to stop doing HFO audios, that I thought I needed to address it. But if there are just as many who like it, I'll gladly keep doing them. :D

  • NowhereMan on 2016-07-10 23:19:02 (UTC)

    Wait, there was a problem? That's news to me. I figured it was one of those things that if you didn't feel HFOs, you either just listened and enjoyed it anyway or moved on.

    Honestly Eve, I think you're doing a great thing regardless. Your work, most notably your talks on UTCs and Sweet Nothings have done me wonders in just making me feel better and even helping to turn my life around when it comes to just caring about myself both in terms of health and socially. I've lost a good bit of weight, and I'm even becoming more socially active again that I can actually talk to women. You've helped me with that and for that you have my thanks.

    What you do to help out guys like me is amazing and even if every audio doesn't cater specifically to my problems or needs, well that's okay because you've done so much good with plenty of other audios. I love the fact that when I felt really down and out and it seemed like nobody cared, I could listen to one of your audios and it really felt like, even if it was only for a short while I was loved by someone. That short time of happiness and comfort really got me through some of the really rough nights.

    To wrap all this up, don't ever feel like anything you do is for naught or that you aren't doing a good service. I can't speak for anyone else, but you've helped me and I'm sure you've helped plenty of others. Thank you Eve.

    • A Eve on 2016-07-11 10:51:28 (UTC)

      That is just so lovely, you've made my day. You don't know how good it feels to hear something like this. Thank you so much!

      I will keep doing HFO audios, along with everything else. I just wanted to make sure I wasn't inadvertently causing a problem. ❤️

      • NowhereMan on 2016-07-11 11:29:19 (UTC)

        Well, you've made me feel good on many occasions (tee hee) so I'm glad to have returned the favor.

        The important thing is to know that you are always doing good, even if one particular audio doesn't suit some people's tastes.

        • A Eve on 2016-07-12 12:59:28 (UTC)

          That is very good to know - it's tough to put things out there sometimes, not knowing whether it's hitting the mark or not. I'm lucky that I have a lot of awesome listeners who comment and message me and let know they like what I'm doing - but I also get a lot of complaints. It's hard to know what to listen to sometimes.

          • NowhereMan on 2016-07-12 16:01:44 (UTC)

            As cheesy as this sounds, listen to your gut/heart/whatever metaphor you want. Just do whatever makes you comfortable. Yeah, you do a lot of great stuff for us, but at the end of the day it's your website and your audio and you should do whatever you want to do. You can't win 'em all but if you're doing what you wanted you can at least count that as a victory in and of itself.

            • A Eve on 2016-07-13 11:28:44 (UTC)

              Yes, that's true. I've stuck to my guns with erotic audio, doing only what I like and feel comfortable with, and I wouldn't have it any other way. Even if no one else liked it, I still would.

              • NowhereMan on 2016-07-13 14:56:49 (UTC)

                >Even if no one else liked it, I still would.

                And that's what matters most.